First of all see how much the medium would cost. Thats what i would do, because if its rediculously high, then their scamming you. I had a friend who was a medium, and he was pretty sure he could do what mediums are considered to be able to do.

If i was her, i would go, i would just go to check it out. Go explore, tell her not to say anything to the medium. See if the medium is accurate on describing the spirit that is hanging around your friend. If the medium picks up on someone that has died around her like a description of someone she knows, then the medium knows what their doing. Spirits can harm, thats what you got to watch out for. But you have the power to cast them away out of your space. I remember having a bad feeling in one of my rooms at home, the bookshelf was shacking and i felt someone. I told them to leave me a lone this is my space and then it left.

I think your friend should go see the medium, go explore, check it out, see whats hanging around her. Because you wont know until you try. And if you dont try you wont overcome it.

Hope this helps

Thanks Romana, I will tell her that. I believe I can can stop her from doing it now. The bad feeling in my stomach finally disipered. I've been awake all night.

Gifted. The problem is that the spirits running the pedelum said ´that she could die if she went to se a medium! I won't allow her to explore that. Yeah I not me right now, I usually think that death is nothing more but the next step in our existens (or somthing like that). But now she meens a lot to me. And I can't let her go to somthing that to me is probably her death. I trust the pedulum and I trust the spirits that watched over me in my life. When they say not to go she souldn't go.

About me, I can go to a medium though. The pendulum have no problems with that. It was just on her it said clearly no, and it said she would die.

I have spoken to here And she wont go. There are so many other things you can try that is not as dangerous as "other beings". For starters you can meditate. The experiences from a simple meditation is unbelieveble. until I get better at protecting my self and the ones I love I will have the ghost on my tv screen only (and in my pendelum of course)