Nope, I told her so. And she has no intetion of doing that. But there are spirits with her. Spirits who does the pendulum? Spirits who watch over her. She just want to se who they are and if they want anything. She wants to se if her animals is with her, and if her old freinds are (they'r all dead). Not evoke or invoke anyone.
Personaly I don't trust any medium. I have even problem trusting you from time to time

(no offence). I only trust myself in this kind of stuff. I go on my feelings. So does she. And her feeling is that she should go to a medium even if the pendulum spirits said no.