You know what ROMANA, you are really right. I have put too much energy into a situation where neither one of the parties in the relationship seem to want help. I can only advise and offer but if neither one of them take it, I cant make them. I have a problem with that sometimes, when a friend has a problem I take it on as if it were my own. I actually become heart broken if they get hurt and overwhelmed with joy when they are happy. Someone told me I am empathic and it certainly explains a lot but I need to learn to block what is real and not real. You know. I need to decide or discern what are my feelings and theirs and really what is my duty as a friend and what is too much. That being said and being a recovering addict I should know that no one will get help unless they want it. Now, does anyone have any good peaceful abundant home spells. I have some small ones but I would like a whammy for a peaceful home full of abundance that will knock the socks off of the proverbial "house"? Let me know chica's. Oh, and April, if you need to talk, I have the same offer as ROMANA considering every time I have needed you, you and R have both jumped to help me and of course the wonderful welcome you both gave me were great too. So, dont hesitate if you need me. Love and blessings, J

Oh and I would like you all to welcome my newest member to the family. HE is an eight week old black male named chase. He is the third installment of black kitties I have. They are Sheba, Shamus, and Chase. They love him so much. I am so happy. Its like they know hes just a baby and they take their time with him when he tries to attack them etc. Sheba mothers him and Shamus plays with him. Its so cute. I will take photos and upload them soon. I have been so blessed with these great cats, my mothers swears they find me and that they are meant to be mine. I swear that they tell me their names and that I know what fits them, so we usually name them whatever I pick. Good night ladies. J

Yeah.....sometimes we have to take a step back and let things roll. I know it is hard but it's best for one's own sanity.

Enjoy your baby, they are adorable when they are that age. If I remember correctly, we have 13 grown cats outside, five of them black, 4 solid dark gray, 2 gray and red speckled and 2 orange. Oh, and so far 4 newborn babies (orange ones). They keep the field mice and snakes away.
Later, Romana

Thanks guys...

I don't really need to vent, just get my butt in gear and find a new job or, become independantly wealthy .
Don't get me wrong, I love my job but I hate my boss and it makes the job miserable.

Have fun with the new baby. They are so much fun at that age.

Sounds like aplan to me...especially the independent wealthy part....

I keep working on it. Some things gonna click soon.