Exactly, none of us is there yet! Otherwise we wouldn/t be here talking about it.

Where is there?

There are days when I hope science is right and in the physical end I will just cease to be. I just get so tired!

Spiritually I do believe that my soul will join a proverbial melting pot and be sent back into the physical existence when needed. But will I be conscious of it? Do I have to get tired all over again? Do I have to relearn all this shit over again? Why didn't I learn any of this the first (second, third . . .) time. Will I ever get it right? Will I know it when (if) I do?

I'm making my head hurt. Aaarrrggg.

Breath in, breath out, repeat.

It's a good question. Of course...That one here claims too know that is all a stupid scam. No one of us can really know. There is no way. And that is why there is so many explenations and theories. In fact, there is at least as many theories of life as there is lifes. I would sugest you to try find your own version as we other who has answers have done and still do.

In my version of truth however you don't get "reborn" as such. You will cease to exist and you will create new life. We all had to learn walk, speak and so on. (of course this all depends on how you define "life" We can remember bits of our past lifes, yes. But obiusly nobody can walk, talk and eat normal food the same day she is born. Not what I heard of anyway. I do in fact beleive that energies can be mixed. For insance, Are you sure that your nighbor is 100% pure human? Is that becouse he looks human? Maybe he is, lets say, a hybrid? Half man, half cow? Yes he loves food and to sitt on his coach just thinking about life or watch his wife stress around. Or maybe Your other nighbour.....Maybe she is half human and half wolf...Yes, isn't she a litlle "overprotective" of her family and friends. She is rich and very generous to the people she loves. But other says she is close and greedy?

My point is...Maybe we split up when dead. We gives parts of our selves to universe to create new life. We may not be reborn as a human, maybe a tree or a pig. Maybe there is someone out there who was the same person as me in a erlier life.

I don't know, you don't know And no one on this site knows either. I'm afraid there is nothing here to "get right". there is only theories and specualtions.

My counterquestion to you will be... What do you believe? If you don't know, then I sugest you seek that answer out. But not here, not on any other forum either. Deep inside yourself is the answer, I promise you this. And if you find that answer, You will be able to whrite your own uniq self based theory exactly as I did now, and as so many other has done before

In this problem you are the salvation. Not us.

I suspect my need to "get it right" is left over from my christian upbringing and the "fear" of getting it wrong.

I know my questions are rhetorical - they are rhetorical when I ask them of myself. I come to these posts and blogs - not for answers (ultimately) but for more questions along the way. As part of my journey. These are the pebbles, bricks (yellow or otherwise) and asphalt of my path. So, if you're feeling like I'm walking all over you, well, that may be the reason.

I don't see nothing wrong with asking. We all do and that's how we learn. .....and I guess "there" is, I don't really know. Maybe we know it when we get "there"

Not Yet Named wrote:
I suspect my need to "get it right" is left over from my christian upbringing and the "fear" of getting it wrong.

I know my questions are rhetorical - they are rhetorical when I ask them of myself. I come to these posts and blogs - not for answers (ultimately) but for more questions along the way. As part of my journey. These are the pebbles, bricks (yellow or otherwise) and asphalt of my path. So, if you're feeling like I'm walking all over you, well, that may be the reason.

Sounds to me you have learned a lot just by asking here. You may not have got the answers you hoped for. But answers you got.
I can se you work with yourself now. keep up that and you may soon answer your question yourself.

Beside that, it is nothing wrong with asking questions. I do it myself alot. The thing is just that some answers can only be found within yourself. And this is such a question. No other can tell what is right or wrong for you. Only you can tell that.